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Finding the way, again.
Like most middle school people, I was very unfortunate-looking, and my self-esteem was nonexistent. My body was changing, and I could see the changes in others; it was a confusing time full of comparison and judgment. I desperately wanted to be cool, but I also desperately wanted not to be me.
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Apr 206 min read


44: Wisdom
This morning, I was up and walking around, trying to get my kids ready for school. They had woken me up with pleasant snuggles and whispered birthday greetings in my ear. It all started out great, but it soon turned into little moments of chaos as we all got ready for the day. My daughter has been enjoying sick days on the couch, so she has started asking to be home. I had to tell her no several times, and then console her when she didn't get her wish. My son typically wander
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Feb 174 min read


The Rage We Carry
There is a way we see anger. Hysterical. Erratic. Unstable. Anger becomes excess. Grief becomes insanity. Tears become evidence of brokenness— instead of proof that something is real. So we learn to quiet ourselves. To repress what is heavy. To carry what has nowhere else to go. This is accumulation. We are told it’s a requirement. To hide anger, grief. To quietly ferry the emotions of our ancestors. Generations have watched their children their bodies, their innocence, their
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Jan 232 min read


Skinny Dipping
We flew in on a tiny plane, not really knowing what to expect. The Isle of Lewis and Harris, the Hebrides islands just north of mainland...
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Oct 7, 20254 min read


Never alone.
I recently went to London for a little solo break. I wanted to see some West End shows and walk around the city for a few days. Since I moved to Iceland, I've been trying to travel a little more and mark off some bucket list items. I love the theatre and I don't go enough. My hotel was about an hour's walk to the theatre, and there was a transportation strike when I arrived. It basically started the day I arrived and ended the day I left, like the universe was telling me I ne
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Sep 25, 20255 min read


When Fantasy Meets Reality: My Third Year.
Moving to a new country is never simple. Three years into my Icelandic journey, I’m still navigating uncertainty, regret, resilience, and...
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Sep 25, 20254 min read


Isolation education
A harmful wave of sunlight shines, burning brightly, distracting avoidance. Hope isn't necessarily darkness— discovering a path towards glimpses of light. Learning in solitude, searching for something deep within to find. Immersed in meaningful words that turn insignificant, deceptions to smiles. Who am I meant to be—someone, to be—something, to find joy in being?
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Aug 11, 20251 min read


Home(s)
When I was growing up, I went to church camp on the Oregon Coast. The camp has been there for quite some time. For example, there’s a...
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Jul 3, 20254 min read


All I have time for.
Young, smooth and labile Trusting with good intentions Earned through confident words Inflecting swaying candour. Put your hands here...
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Apr 4, 20251 min read
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